When I was young I always thought that I was always the youngest..”bunso” or whatever you might call it, but as I grow up I have been a big sister not to my sibling but to my cousins.
Being a elder sister requires pure patience, love & care. I honestly can’t be proud of anything I am, I’m not a perfect sister to my Ate nor a very good daughter, I even doubt myself sometimes if I’m really a family oriented person, but truth strikes me that I was or I am a good elder sister to my dear cousins
with Angel this was taken at the Cemetery at my grand parents grave, way back when I was high school. Beside me was my very kind & obedient baby cousin, She always takes my word of advice because I was ahead of her. We bond together by chatting well.. as we all know It’s girls talk about boys, school & whatever we can talk about under the sun. She never, never talks back to me that’s what I really like about her.
The next one was bianca, this was taken in my late high school days, this was at the hospital. Lolo got sick & admitted to the I.C.U, We just got bored. Bianca was now at Grade 8th. I vaguely remember how many years am I older than her, but we got along. She’s a very very very shy girl, She just laughs when there’s something funny, she’s well reserved sometimes it feels like I am talking to myself and ironically myself talks back *kidding* but really, I don’t understand why but I really love her.
This is JB..bianca’s younger brother. We were very close! This was taken just a month ago at The Malacañang of the North at Ilocos Norte. We always teases each other, we always hug, fight, sleep together. He’s the youngest in my Mom’s side of the family. We both love eating! I’m sorry that I chose that picture that you can only see our backs, that was stolen. I find it very sweet! that’s why I pick that photo. One more thing, he’s really good at chess! but I don’t really know how to play chess, ask the experts Hahaha.
This is Martha, the best playmate ever,This was taken at their house at my freshy year in college. We grow together that I almost lived in their house when the funny thing is I just lived next door. I think she’s about to be in her 3rd year at high school. I remember my childhood days, The power of Highschool Musical, Disney Princesses & Hannah Montana. We have fights but at the end of the day, fight aren’t worth it to loose a playmate, well “kiddos”. I haven’t spend a very long time with her since then, I miss her so much.
This is Raissa, a never expected child of Tita Edith, She’s very stubborn, sleep whore, lazy queen Gaaaahhhddd!! She’s everything. I “always always” got a say in her life. She’s very dependent, I don’t know how to let her go cause I’m afraid still she can’t. She’s in her fresh year at college, I hope she’ll do fine. I really hope that she’ll now do things on her own, be a very responsible and independent girl. She’s at Manila OMG, I’m going crazy, there’s so many bad people out there, snatchers, holdappers or whatever. I just pray that she won’t get hurt. I care a lot about her, and I don’t wanna let her choices hurt her so I speak & stand for whatever I know would be better for her.
The last one was my favorite, this is benjo. I can’t remember when it was taken but it was taken at our Tita’s house. I did everything to be her best Ate, I love my brother so much. We’re completely different, He’s very silent & shy while I was a very energetic and outgoing person. What I like about benjo is He always have a long patience when it comes to me, He knows that I’m very stubborn and etc. but still he always listens to whatever I say, He obeys me every time without further complains. I always reach for him cause I know boys won’t share things. I’m very proud that even though he’s a boy he never gives me headache, he studies very well much more than I am. He never gets lazy to do his homeworks and Outstanding student. I pray that he will pass on this coming UPCAT exam cause I know how much he prepared for it and his worthy of passing it. Always keep up the good work, I’m always right here to support you in whatever path you wanted to take, Ate loves you very much!! ❤
. I have always been caring & supportive to each and every-one of them. I care as much as I love them, I feel responsible to guide and protect them. I have this attitude to always have a “say” in their lives, not being “pakelamera” there’s just this kind of instinct that I had “been there, done that”.
I wasn’t a outstanding example as person but I’m here to guide & mold them fully I wanted them to better than I was.